How I Went From Being An Exhausted, Burned-out Government Drone
To Creating A Life Of Freedom And Joy
..without dumping my friends, losing my mind or getting a lobotomy
YOU THOUGHT YOUR FANCY TITLE, DEGREE, OR LICENSE WOULD BE THE ULTIMATE PATH TO FINALLY BEING JOYFUL, HAPPY, AND FREE!
I know you had big dreams when you graduated and started working at your grown woman job.
You felt like you had arrived.
You got the paycheck, you got the nice office and you loved the responsibilities at work.
You finally felt like you had the option to make a real difference.
The impact you’ve always wanted to make.
Except, fast forward a few years - you're tired
You find yourself snapping at everyone.
You keep breaking down into tears even with the slightest jolt.
You’re Spending too much time at the doctor looking for the cause of your ailments.
You’re suffering the symptoms of an unlived life.
You feel purposeless and powerless in your own life.
Even though you did all the “right things”.
I hate to break it to you - but honey, you’re tired, burned out.
Right now, you have nothing to give to anyone - because your own cup is empty.
THE PROBLEM?
WHAT YOU’VE BEEN TAUGHT ABOUT FULFILLMENT IS ALL WRONG!
Here’s the thing: a lot of Black women think that working hard and being driven leads to fulfillment.
You may be struggling with the stay busy/prove your worth image and that leaves you tired and depleted.
Most of us think that “hard work” is the key to fulfillment.
And once you work hard enough - you’ll get “rewarded” by being able to do the things you really want (that you’re currently putting off).
You’d wake up feeling awesome.
You’d love to hang with your girls.
Go and do what you want.
Be more creative.
Live an incredible life.
Somehow you still find yourself saying “one day and someday - after I’ve worked hard enough”
But that someday never seems to come..
I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW - YOU’RE NOT ALONE.
WHAT MOST WOMEN DON’T KNOW IS:
You don’t have to delay your fulfillment to “someday” - and suffer through a bleak, burned out existence for decades to get there.
You don’t have to do it all alone at home AND at work - working yourself to the bone to “prove” that you’re capable, worthy Superwoman.
You don’t have to say yes to ALL the things (especially the things you want to say NO to).
You don’t have to get dinner on the table and feel guilty it’s not nutritious enough
You don’t have to bring baked goods for the school and feel guilty they were not not made from scratch -- or horror-- packaged
You don’t need to take a Zoom call with the important client at dinner time?
You don’t have to live through yet another conversation where someone tells you: “OMG you’re so strong - how DO you do all of it?” - and secretly resent yourself for being the one who’s always taking one for the team!
Because you KNOW the truth: you’re barely holding it together. And you’re terrified of dropping the ball on something - because you’re just juggling way too many balls.
UGH.
I want you to know - burnout is a very expensive problem.
The worst part is: burnout is not just costing you health- it’s costing you ALL of your relationships, your joy and your life.
You’re putting yourself at risk for high blood pressure, diabetes, stroke, and a whole host of other ailments.
I don’t say this to scare you - I say it because I care about you...and also because, not so long ago - I was you!
I WAS IN THE SAME PLACE AS YOU - 7 YEARS AGO.
Back in the day, when I was busy being a wife, mother, and lawyer - I lost myself along the way.
I was burned out (I didn’t even know it) - and I felt confused about everything in my life.
Even though I was a smart, well-qualified woman, I had no idea what I wanted..
So of course - I didn’t know how to get “it”.
And, my husband couldn’t give it to me - if I didn’t even know what I needed.
My life seemed to be slipping away.
I felt out of touch with life and out of touch with me..
My biggest fear was that I would die having never really lived - because I was too busy trying to prove that I was striving to be Superwoman who could “do it all” - without breaking a sweat.
Ugh!
Even though I didn’t know I was burning out - I could see that living this way was killing me slowly. Literally!
I looked around and noticed I was really living at all! I was just existing through days, months, and years...
Even though I loved my family and loved my work - It wasn’t enough.
In my heart - I knew that I wanted more.
Being a decent wife and mother wasn’t enough-
I wanted to be present for my daughter, feel some joy in my life and be effective at work, but I was tired and confused.
Right now, I’d guess that you’re in a similar place.
Maybe you’ve given up on figuring out how to have good health, great relationships, and be good at your work.
Maybe you’re telling yourself two out of three is the best you can do!
Spouse/ Parent/ Worker.
Maybe you believe that joyful home life and effective, impactful work life doesn’t exist for people like you.
You console yourself by saying: “At least I have a good job, loving partner and a good life” - and you pretend like you don’t even need to rest, feel joy or go to bed with fulfillment in your heart....
...and you’ve resigned yourself to the fact that this is all there is.
I totally understand. I was there, too.
After feeling like I was failing at being a Jill of all trades - I almost gave up on freeing myself from white picket fence prison.
Until one day, I attended a workshop with my friend Adam - and he showed me how I could bring more joy, presence, and creativity to my life - without needing to have everything all figured out at once.
I was MIND-BLOWN when I heard about it - and I had my breakthrough.
I decided that I was DONE putting my life on hold.
I was done putting everyone else’s dreams first..
I decided to do things differently with Radical Truth Telling..
Within a year, I completely redesigned my life - and I never looked back!
At first, I thought it was just beginner’s luck - but right now, 9 years later - I am still consistently enjoying living life as a FREE BLACK WOMAN...
And I want the same for you.
1. Create a new mind and a new world by being in the present.
2. Spirit delights in your joy.
3. It already is good.
4. Let spirit speak to you the way spirit speaks to YOU.
5. Find out what productive looks like for you.
6. What’s one micro move that you plan to do this week to move you towards your vision?
7. What boundary will you impose?
Notes from the field. Lessons from this weeks session with @loriharrisesq 
She's been saving my life y’all.
Vanessa G.
IMAGINE WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO STOP WAITING AND BE FREE NOW - WITH JUST ONE SIMPLE DECISION
What would it be like to have the space to just think, tune into your heart and find the best next step towards your purpose on this planet?
What would it be like to prioritize your well being - and feel zero guilt about it whatsoever?
How would your lifestyle change - if you attended to your desires first, filled your own cup and then gave to others from the overflow?
What if you could finish your work with time to spare - instead of constantly playing catch up on that never-ending to-do list?
What would it be worth it to you to know that you can follow a simple framework to feel better now - without sacrificing the quality of your work or flaking out on taking care of your family?
How would you feel when your spouse says: “You are so much more present and fun to be with now?
How would it feel to be happier at home and more effective at work - without meditating for hours?
Over the years, people started asking me: “What’s going on with you? You’ve completely turned your life around - and you look happier than ever!”
So I decided to share my wisdom, strategies and tools with strong Black women everywhere who wanted to create a life they loved.
And that’s why I created my program Awake Aware Aligned.
INTRODUCING
Awake. Aware. Aligned
Get my simple, effective + proven process to get MORE LOVE, MORE LIFE and MORE FUN - WITHOUT SELLING OUT SELLING YOUR SOUL.
Perfect for: Women who are ready to overcome burnout, put their joy first and create a life that honors their desires - without feeling any guilt whatsoever!
Recorded
Trainings
Each week you receive recorded lessons on Sunday evenings. Each call will be up to 60 mins long.
Implementation Resources
You’ll get access to ONE GROUP CALL and HOT SEAT COACHING - every week - that allows you to implement everything you’re learning quickly + easily!
A Supportive Community
Inside this program community - you’ll be supported by LORI and YOUR peers who are on this journey with you - every week - from Monday to Friday!
When I first started coaching with Lori, I was focused on internalized challenges I was facing… certain preconceived notions that were inhibiting me. Your coaching went way beyond my expectations. I like the way your system encourages you to think about all aspects of your life, not just in one area, that made it really exciting on a lot of levels. I was not expecting that, and it illuminated how I had boxed off my personal life and well-being from my professional work. I had pushed personal goals off, imagining they’d have to wait until I retire. The coaching brought my whole life into focus.
For example - part of my dream is to spend more time in nature, now I’m making that happen more often instead of delaying it. The audio tapes are inspiring too. They are easy to integrate into my commute time. Using that quiet driving headspace to imagine and conceive of my dream in greater and greater detail is a process I’m still using. Coaching with Lori is opening up new energy and potential that is fueling positive change in both my personal and professional life.
Jan W.
Learn how to:
Gain more confidence!
Create more Joy!
Enhance your relationships.
Make it super-easy to incorporate more fun into your life now
Navigate uncertainty.
Double your productiveness - without working longer hours.
Accelerate the process of growth and expansion
Finally, build a life you love - and while having the community impact you dream of.
Program Curriculum
IN THE NEXT 12 WEEKS, I WANT TO SHOW YOU HOW TO START TELLING YOURSELF THE TRUTH SO YOU CAN BE THE WOMAN YOU WANT
DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO
AND HAVE THE THINGS YOU WANT TO HAVE
Inside this program,
YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO UNCOVER YOUR HIDDEN DESIRES
SO YOU CAN HAVE MORE LIFE
along with easy-to-use implementation support.
As a result, you will be able to be your true self - so that you can experience a richer, more fulfilling life.
It’s time to discover what you want and then go get it.
Week 1 & 2
Creating a Vision
You’ll learn the steps to radical truth-telling - so that you can finally figure what the heck you really want and stop sleepwalking through life
Week 3 & 4
Overcome Fear, Doubt, Worry
You’ll learn how to uncover hidden thoughts and beliefs that hold you back for getting what you want - so that you can overcome Imposter Syndrome, ask for what you deserve and get it.
Week 5 & 6
Discover and Release any inner blocks
Learn how to release the stories that tell you that you’re not worthy or deserving of having what you desire - so that you can get comfortable with receiving and keeping good things in your life.
Week 7 & 8
Turning into Your Inner Voice
Learn how to tap into your intuition and harness.
Have the life you want.
Live the life you love.
Week 9 & 10
Build your squad
Learn how to assemble a team of doers and supporters to hold each other's dreams. Get support and accountability you need to keep going - so that you can have a team by your side when times (inevitably) get tough.
Bonus
Interactive Workbooks with illustrations you can apply again and again.
This new awareness and approach will change your life immediately
Lori was able to prod me to ask myself better questions. It was like a door was opened into a dark room that allowed me to see both my circumstances and future possibilities in a different light. Having new questions made me realize how important asking the right questions are for closing the gap between where I am now and where I hope to be in a few years and even months from now. I felt challenged and yet completely safe at the same time.
Eden C.
HERE’S WHAT’S PROBABLY GOING ON FOR YOU RIGHT NOW...
You’re feeling lost and confused around YOUR LIFE PURPOSE
You feel like you’re treading water and staying afloat - but you’re not moving towards ANY REAL GOALS.
You experience an overall feeling of DREAD- that you just can’t shake off.
You struggle with wondering. “Is this all there is?”- and find yourself spinning around in circles with no clarity.
You’re unhappy with your RELATIONSHIPS - and feel like they lack TRUE CONNECTION.
You’re super tired and BURNED OUT - and feel like you’re stuck on a treadmill: working hard, but going nowhere.
You know something needs to change - but you have no idea where to start.
WHAT YOU’LL FEEL AFTER FINISHING AWAKE, AWARE, ALIGNED
You’ll be joyfully SHOWING UP FOR YOURSELF
You’ll rediscover the longings of your heart - along with faith that you can actually make it happen.
You’ll identify the source of your discontentment
You’ll enjoy feeling alive- all day every day.
You’ll feel more energized and you’ll show up as the best version of yourself
You will be able to figure out what you want and start the journey to get it.
You will stop thinking in an if/then way - and start experiencing both/and life - now!
You will live in your joy NOW
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...Lori brings abstract universal principles into a concrete experience and leaves you feeling your dream and having the tools to put into action to create the environment for the dream to manifest. Lori is generous and uses her own personal experience to provide an example for those to feel and see someone who walks the walk.
Lisa
Pricing Plan
3 payments of $599
payment plan
12 x Weekly Core Modules
12 x weekly live group coaching calls
12 weeks of support inside The Membership Community
Interactive worksheets
Recordings of all live calls
Lifetime access to all recordings
Priority Access to Future Offers
On Life Mastery
$1497 paid in full
Save $300
pay in full
12 x Weekly Core Modules
12 weekly live group coaching calls
12 weeks of support inside The Membership Community
Interactive Worksheets
Recordings of all live call
Lifetime access to all recordings
Priority Access to Future Offers On Life Mastery
Pay-In-Full Bonus: A One on One Vision Calibration session with Lori
ATTENTION: THIS IS AN INCLUSIVELY EXCLUSIVE PROGRAM.
While I want this program to benefit as many people as possible around the world - it’s my duty to provide an amazing experience for my clients and I take that seriously
This is not a digital course that will just sit on your hard drive.
This is an interactive program. We will meet together and you will have support. I will be at your side because I’m invested in your success and healing.
If you fit the bill below - I’d love to have you inside the program.
THIS PROGRAM IS RIGHT FOR YOU IF...
You’re ready to discover what you want and take efforts to get it
You have tried to change on your own beforehand but you lost steam along the way.
You’re wanting to learn how to set and maintain boundaries with colleagues, friends and yes, even family members.
You want to improve your health and wellbeing in a sustainable way.
You want better relationships - that fuel you and light you up.
You know you’re here to accomplish the life of your dreams and you’re tired of getting in your own way.
You’re willing to take 100% responsibility for your outcomes in this journey - and you’re willing to show up and do the work!
THIS PROGRAM IS *NOT* RIGHT FOR YOU IF …
You don’t have one - two hours per week to invest in yourself with this program.
You’re not willing to be honest about the areas of your life where you need to make change
You’re not interested in giving up your negative behaviors and thought patterns
You think you know it all - and that your mind set has nothing to do with your lackluster life
You’re content with your life and don’t want to make a change.
You don’t want to take responsibility for your results.
You’re looking for a quick fix - and not something that requires rigorous dedication
Frequently Asked Questions
As soon as you begin to implement what you learn.
It’s simple, but not easy. You may have many years of ignoring your inner longings
For some clients it takes time to tune in to their desire. I will be there to jump-start your process.
There is always an opportunity to apply for further study - but this is the main offer I am inviting my clients into.
Lori is always available in the community, and on the weekly call.
A private mastermind group is available to all participants.
The curriculum is released each Sunday.
We will meet weekly and recordings will be made available in the event of your absence.
Week one of the curriculum is made available immediately and the remaining work is released consecutively.
You will enjoy lifetime access to the program and you can return to the teaching again and again as you uplevel your life.
No, the program is only for enrolled participants. We create a sacred circle that I expect to be honored.
As with life, you get what you commit to, when you commit and take action your life will transform. It can be no other way.
hey there,
I'm Coach Lori
...and I’d venture a guess and say: “I am a lot like you”...
I started off as a WIFE/MOTHER/ LITIGATION ATTORNEY- and a few years in, I realized that I had lost myself and my zest for life.
I tried everything I could think of:
- CHURCH
- THERAPY
- MEDITATION
And unfortunately lots of sugary sweets and lots of wine…
...and surprise, that didn't work!
I felt let down by the Lie of the American Dream. I felt like I’d invested TIME, MONEY, and ENERGY in the things we’re told will make us happy. I still ended up sad, empty, and unfulfilled.
I hit a low point in my life - and I was doing everything possible to show up for the people that I care about in my life, but I started having less and less to give.
At this point, I stumbled upon what I think of as radical truth-telling through using the tools I share in the Awake Aware Aligned program - and I started to come alive.
After that, I continued to learn about the Power of Decision through the Power of Awareness. I got certified to share what I learned through the Brave Thinking Institute - and start helping clients get the same results, too!
In this process of going deeper with discovering what you want and helping clients do the same - what I have realized is that:
We all JUST WANT TO BE FREE to live a life of alignment.
Unfortunately for me (and for you too, probably) - we’ve been looking for answers OUTSIDE OF OURSELVES. WE KNOW DEEP INSIDE THAT There’s a better way!
If you’re ready to take charge of your LIFE AND HONOR YOUR DESIRE - I’d be honored to support you through AWAKE, AWARE ALIGNED.
Pricing Plan
3 payments of $599
payment plan
12 x Weekly Core Modules
12 x weekly live group coaching calls
12 weeks of support inside The Membership Community
Interactive worksheets
Recordings of all live calls
Lifetime access to all recordings
Priority Access to Future Offers
On Life Mastery
$1497 paid in full
Save $300
pay in full
12 x Weekly Core Modules
12 weekly live group coaching calls
12 weeks of support inside The Membership Community
Interactive Worksheets
Recordings of all live call
Lifetime access to all recordings
Priority Access to Future Offers On Life Mastery
Pay-In-Full Bonus: A One on One Vision Calibration session with Lori
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